New Car, New Start

So mid-summer, the hubs and I realized that our little Lancer just wasn’t gonna work anymore. Size Really Does Matter With the boys getting bigger, by what seems to be the second, we just outgrew it. So we started the conversation up again about trading the Lancer in. Knowing we would have a rough time trying to get out of a vehicle that we are upside down in we touched base with one of my favorite guys in the business. We had been working with him off and on since before we bought the lancer. But just couldn’t seem to get it to work out. This time was different though,… Read More

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Mega Meltdown

Tonight I one of those nights that seriously brings me to tears. Special Needs What… Often times, I forget that I am a special needs mama until we have meltdowns. Thankfully tonight it was at home, but we still had company. Having lil J have such a bad meltdown over what seems to be the simplest stuff gets really frustrating. Because at that point, it is normally more than just lil J melting down. It is because E or big J were pickin on him, or he doesn’t feel well and can’t express what is going on. And then the added piece of, E & J not wanting to leave… Read More

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Big Bad Bullies

Most people want better for their children. Better jobs, better life, better experience in school. Past Repeats Itself But when you get that news that your child is going through the same thing that you did in school, it hits you in the gut like a ton of bricks. All of the flashbacks, triggering memories that you thought would never resurface. Growing up you always wanted to believe that when a school says “We will not tolerate any type of bullying.” But that never was and never will be the truth. We always trust that the school, whose job it is to protect children’s minds as well as their bodies,… Read More

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New Year, New You?

Why do people always push for the whole New Year New you? I hate people saying that you need to better yourself simply because its a new year. Be Who You Are If you are an asshole, be an asshole. If you are a push over….well maybe that one you should look at changing. I was that person, so gung ho about resolutions and making goals for the new year…..and I am right there with them when they fall flat on their faces. Lessons Not Excuses A very wise man spoke of the importance of allowing lessons of things past to be learned, but not used as a crutch. And… Read More

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